30 things about your life with migraine

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1. My diagnosis is: Occular Migraines + Trigeminal Neuralgia
2. My migraine attack frequency is: 2-3 per month
3. I was diagnosed in: 1991
4. My comorbid conditions include: Joint Hypermobilty Syndrome, severe Anxiety, Probable Fibromyalgia.
5. I take __2__ medications/supplements each day for prevention and __4__ medications/supplements to treat an acute attack
6. My first migraine attack was: 1988
7. My most disabling migraine symptoms are: visual disturbance; pain
8. My strangest migraine symptoms are: my left eye (usually) won’t open
9. My biggest migraine triggers are: stress, tiredness
10. I know a migraine attack is coming on when: I develop a stammer
11. The most frustrating part about having a migraine attack is: speech aphasia
12. During a migraine attack, I worry most about: my kids; both their reaction and how to handle the day ahead.
13. When I think about migraine between attacks, I think: feelings of dread and annoyance.
14. When I tell someone I have migraine, the response is usually: sympathy, followed by ‘have you tried..? (The answer is yes, frequently)
15. When someone tells me they have migraine, I think: you poor bastard
16. When I see commercials about migraine treatments, I think: uhuh. Yep, that sounds likely.
17. My best coping tools are: my eyepatch, which helps the photophobia and lack of ability to visually focus
18. I find comfort in: My eyepatch + the ‘inverse colours’, dimmer slider and ‘greyscale’ functions on my iPad so I can sometimes read.
19. I get angry when people say: ‘if you just lost weight, your (whatever symptoms) would disappear /reduce.” Yup. I have never, ever, been told this by one of my many doctors. You know, the ones with actual medical training.
20. I like it when people say: ‘do you want me to take in/pick up your kids to/from school?’ Practical help is the best.
21. Something kind someone can do for me during a migraine attack is: keep my kids occupied/fed so I don’t have to deal with food smells or seeing movement
22. The best thing(s) a doctor has ever said to me about migraine is: ‘it’s unfair, and I know how debilitating they are. I will prescribe [x] and we’ll see if it helps.
23. The hardest thing to accept about having migraine is: the more I stress, the worse it gets
24. Migraine has taught me: sometimes you need to ask for more help than you are comfortable with.
25. The quotation, motto, mantra, or scripture that gets me through an attack is: This Too Shall Pass
26. If I could go back to the early days of my diagnosis, I would tell myself: If you think it helps, it does. Ignore him.
27. The people who support me most are: my Dad and my family/friends
28. The thing I most wish people understood about migraine is: it doesn’t define me, even when I have an attack.
29. Migraine and Headache Awareness Month is important to me because: if it helps someone find their own shortcut to coping, that’s awesome.
30. One more thing I’d like to say about life with migraine is: find out your triggers, manage them as best you can, then get on as best you can. We got your back, and know how hard you are trying to cope.

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