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1. My diagnosis is: chronic migraine with aura
2. My migraine attack frequency is: daily
3. I was diagnosed in: around 2000
4. My comorbid conditions include: fibromyalgia, anxiety, depression,
unindifferentiated auto-immune disorder, IBS, foot pain (standing more than 30 is very painful)
5. I take __1__ medications/supplements each day for prevention and __2__ medications/supplements to treat an acute attack
6. My first migraine attack was: I can’t remember. I think I’ve had problems since high school but didn’t know what they were.
7. My most disabling migraine symptoms are: pain, nausea, photophobia, sounds, jaw pain
8. My strangest migraine symptoms are: don’t like to smell food cooking and the opposite side of my face will turn red (if it’s on one side)
9. My biggest migraine triggers are: being hungry, singing, stress, loud noise, standing on my feet to long, allergies, heat
10. I know a migraine attack is coming on when: I get a dull pain at the base of my head and neck, jaw, or face.
11. The most frustrating part about having a migraine attack is: I can’t sing, I’ve gained 40 lbs in a month due to medication, waking up not knowing when or if it’s going to start and what will trigger it, not being able to work/even being discriminated against.
12. During a migraine attack, I worry most about: how to treat it
13. When I think about migraine between attacks, I think: When is the next one coming? How can I keep from having one?
14. When I tell someone I have migraine, the response is usually: you need to drink more water and take a walk!
15. When someone tells me they have migraine, I think: I’m so sorry! I wish I could take your kids, make a meal for you, clean and do laundry!
16. When I see commercials about migraine treatments, I think: THAT’S ME!!!
17. My best coping tools are: MY BED, pain meds in moderation, relaxing mentally and physically-like meditating, getting a treat sometimes, a little caffeine helps
18. I find comfort in: BED!, my husband, participating in community theatre
19. I get angry when people say: drink more water and take a walk, they know what’s causing it, you need to concentrate on being a pastor’s wife
20. I like it when people say: Can I make a meal for you? I’m so sorry! Can I help? Nothing and hug me.
21. Something kind someone can do for me during a migraine attack is: bring me a sweet tea without ice from McDonalds, make a meal, make a care package
22. The best thing(s) a doctor has ever said to me about migraine is: I have them too.
23. The hardest thing to accept about having migraine is: All the things I can’t do: sing, dance, and work. In MI our summers are short and I miss a lot of it! – It’s a grieving process.
24. Migraine has taught me: how to relax my body and mind, God loves me even though He doesn’t heal me. As a matter of fact, He uses me to understand others.
25. The quotation, motto, mantra, or scripture that gets me through an attack is: The story of Job
26. If I could go back to the early days of my diagnosis, I would tell myself: Don’t doubt yourself! If you have to take OTC’s more than twice a week, get on a preventative!!!
27. The people who support me most are: my husband, a few friends
28. The thing I most wish people understood about migraine is: I am disabled by them completely even though I look normal! When you see me doing theatre, it’s because it brings me joy. I work through as much pain as I can to do it.
29. Migraine and Headache Awareness Month is important to me because: I feel we are overlooked! This is a way to inform other people AND MYSELF!
30. One more thing I’d like to say about life with migraine is: I feel lost in a vicious cycle! I went back to college with migraines and was discriminated against during my internships. This is a painful life emotionally as well. Keep persevering!

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