Brianna’s 30 things about chronic daily headache
This is a reader-submitted story.
1. I have had chronic daily headache (CDH) for __16__ years.
2. The first headache I remember is: I was younger than age ten.
3. After the headache started, it took __11 years____ [weeks/months/years] to get a diagnosis.
4. My pain level is steady/fluctuates. Level fluctuates, but the pain is always there.
5. My typical pain level ranges from: 3-8
6. In addition to pain, my symptoms include: photosensitivity, phonosensitivity, nausea, racing heartbeat, dilated pupils, insomnia.
7. Treatments I have tried include: massage, chiropractic, homotherapy, many different medications both over the counter and prescription.
8. I take __4__ medications/supplements each day for prevention and __3__ medications/supplements when the pain becomes unbearable
9. When the pain gets bad, I: go to bed, dark room, take meds, try and sleep.
10. The most frustrating part about having CDH is: not knowing if it will be a good or bad day.
11. Because of CDH, I worry about: disappointing those I love.
12. When I tell someone I have CDH, the response is usually: how do you do it?
13. When I see how little research and information exists on CDH, I feel: frustrated and sad.
14. Having CDH has affected my work/school life by: I have had to cut back my work schedule severely.
15. Having CDH has affected by family life by: My husband has had to take over and help with the daily household chores.
16. The one word that best describes my experience with CDH is: altering
17. My best coping tools are: encouragement from family and friends.
18. I find comfort in: fuzzy blankets and soft pillows!
19. I get angry when people say: not really angry, but sad: “I had a headache yesterday, not as bad as yours…” As if they diminish their own pain by comparing it with mine, when pain is such a subjective and personal thing.
20. I like it when people say: I know this is difficult for you, but I’m really happy to see you here anyway.
21. Something kind someone has done for me in relation to CDH is: my best friend is in the process of helping me put together a migraine coping kit, for when I’m not at home and it gets bad.
22. The best thing a doctor has ever said to me about CDH is: you’re not a lost cause, and we can help you feel better.
23. The hardest thing to accept about having CDH is: there is no cure right now, no medications that consistently help.
24. Having CDH has taught me: patience
25. The quotation, motto, mantra, or scripture that helps me cope with CDH is: Isaiah 33:24 – “and no resident will say “i am sick.”
26. If I could go back to the early days of my diagnosis, I would tell myself: this isn’t your fault, and hang in there.
27. The people who support me most are: My husband, my parents, and a few close friends.
28. The thing I most wish people understood about CDH is: it is always there, if I look okay it is because I have my “everything’s fine” mask on.
29. Migraine and Headache Awareness Month is important to me because: if awareness is increased, perhaps we can get more effective management tools.
30. One more thing I’d like to say about living with CDH is: I’m working on dealing with the unreasonable guilt I feel when I have to say no. I want to make everyone happy, but I can’t do that, and take care of myself at the same time. Also, I’m trying to give myself permission to make my health a priority.
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