30 things about my headache disorder
This is a reader-submitted story.
1. My diagnosis is: chronic migraine
2. My headache frequency is 5 or 6 a week, with about 3 afternoons in bed each week
3. The first headache I remember was in Ireland on a yoga retreat, 7 years ago
4. My pain levels range from:3 – 9
5. I was diagnosed in: 2006
6. My comorbid conditions include:
7. I take anti seizure pills each day for prevention and triptan pills to treat an acute attack
8. In addition to pain, other symptoms I experience include: weakness, nausea, verbal aphasia, light sensitivity
9. Treatments I have tried include: dietary restriction, acupuncture, chinese medicine, biofeedback, cefaly, massage, triptans, beta blockers
10. During a severe headache, I go to bed,draw the curtains call my husband home from work to take care of the kids
11. My headaches get worse when: I’m under stress, lack of sleep, stimulation or intensity of any kind even positive or when I’ve been having a lot of headaches
12. The most frustrating part about having a headache disorder is: not the headaches, it;s the headaches being chronic, never being able to plan or look forward to anything, having to miss out on so much and grieving the things you miss.
13. Having a headache disorder causes me to worry about: the future.
14. When I tell someone I have a headache disorder, they usually say: ‘have you tried acupuncture’, or ‘I used to get migraines’ or’what causes them’?
15. When I see articles about headache disorders, I th ink:
16. My best coping tools are: hugs from my kids, breathingand medication
17. I find comfort in: my children
18. I get angry when people tell me they know what it’s like.
19. I like it when people say: I’m bringing over food.
20. Something kind a person can do for me during a severe headache is: check in with me, i can disappear for weeks and weeks, offer to take care of my kids, bring food.
21. The best thing a doctor has ever said to me about having a headache disorder is:you are a valiant survivor.
22. Having a headache disorder has affected my work/school life by: making it very difficult for me to look after my kids, and to wonder if I will be able to work again.
23. The hardest thing to accept about having a headache disorder is: losing days, and not knowing if it’s ever going to get much better, feeling powerless.
24. Having a headache disorder has taught me: to look for balance, gentleness and to lead a very healthy life
25. The quotation, motto, mantra, or scripture that gets me through severe pain is:abide in me as i abide in you
26. If I could go back to the early days of my diagnosis, I would tell myself: you will surprise yourself at how much difference you can make, but you will also be surprised at how serious this is
27. The people who support me most are:my husband and children, (although they can ironically also be triggers!)
28. The thing I most wish people understood about headache disorders is: the difference between acute and chronic illnesses of all kinds.
29. Migraine and Headache Awareness Month is important to me because: spreading awareness
30. One more thing I’d like to say about my headache disorder is: I wish it would stop.
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