An Extra-Special Birthday
My mom turns 61 today. She won’t be happy that I told you all how old she is (she insists she’s 27), but I am because I’m thrilled that she made it to 61. Days before her 60th birthday, she had brain aneurysm rupture. In med speak, it was a subarachnoid hemmorage.
While getting ready for work on that Thursday, she was hit with a sudden terrible headache, unlike any headache she’d had before. She felt sure that it was an aneurysm, but after she and my dad talked about all the people they knew who’d had awful colds in the few weeks before that, she didn’t go to the hospital, thinking she must have a cold.
After working the rest of the week and most of the weekend, she flew to Kansas to visit family. She had been feeling better, but after the flight, her head was raging and she was nauseated, weak, exhausted and disoriented.
Tuesday she went to the ER and had several tests, including a CT scan. Nothing turned up, and the doctor said it was probably a migraine. Nevermind that 60 is a strange age for migraine onset and it was nothing like her previous headaches. When she told me the diagnosis, none of this crossed my mind. I just said, “Oh, OK, what are you taking?” Then I told her that Advil would help more than Tylenol and left it at that.
She was in and out of ERs across Kansas for the rest of the week. She was given fluid and painkillers and doctors did more tests, none of which showed a problem.
Saturday morning she sent my dad to get coffee. He came back to find her passed out on the floor. An ambulance whisked her off to the hospital, where more tests showed that she had an aneurysm rupture that morning. It was actually a re-rupture; the first happened the previous Thursday. Turns out that CT scans show blood in the brain resulting from a rupture and the blood is visible for a short time afterward.
She was airlifted to the Nebraska Medical Center in Omaha, where she stayed almost three weeks and underwent three surgeries.
A year later, I’m happy to say that she is alive and well, with no lingering problems.
Several of the ICU nurses called her survival a miracle. I have to agree. Happy birthday, Mom!
I’m still one to say that more than 90% of headaches are not caused by catastropic problems, like an aneurysm or brain tumor. But that doesn’t keep headache sufferers (including me) from worrying that they’re in the minority.
This isn’t just my mom’s one-year anniversary, it’s also Brain Aneurysm Awareness Week 2005. I have yet to see publicity on this beyond the Brain Aneurysm Foundation, but I’ll share it with you if I do.